Games are lighthearted and lots of fun. They take the pressure off and allow you and your partner to really let loose. Whether you’re trying to get to know each other better and spark the romance,  a game is a fun way to do it! Choosing fun date ideas is something that you not only should do, but have to do if you want to stand out in her mind.

Horseback Riding – most people love animals. Horseback riding is one of the fun date ideas that she will remember for a long time, and all her girlfriends will be jealous that you were able to do something so special together, or one that he will remember because he would never think of trying it normally.

Carnival or Fair – There are things to do, food to eat, or you can just walk and talk to each other. There’s plenty to watch to keep the conversation flowing. It’s best at night to add some romance and a sense of privacy. Very fun and it is a perfect date.

Fly a Kite - Pretty self explanatory. The idea here is not to go “all out” but to create some time to laugh and play together.

Planetarium –  it is a fantastic place to hold hands, sit in the dark and explore the universe around you. Some also host weekend star-gazing events, where tour guides will show you and your date how to spot the major constellations. Then, use this information for a romantic date later on down the road – just the two of you on your balcony or in a park, trying to find the big dipper together.

Go to the Zoo – Think back to your childhood and remember your love for animals. If you are both animal lovers, there is no doubt that the zoo is an excellent place to visit. Take your date to the zoo and exclaim over the antics of monkeys or take in a dolphin performance. Feed peanuts to the elephants and perhaps to each other.

Video Games – Invite your date over for a taste of the “other side.” Rent a game together and sit back with a pizza while you battle demons together or take Mario to the next level.

Fun date aren’t one thing or another. It’s what you both can do together to enjoy yourselves. Pay attention when she talks about what she enjoys, and she’ll give you about a hundred different things to do that she’ll love.

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Maybe you just met the  girl you want to ask out or maybe you’ve had a crush on them for a while. Either way, you’ll never get together if one of you doesn’t make the first move. Here are a few tips on how to ask that special someone on a date.

• Introduce yourself to that person you’ve been admiring from afar. Get the person’s telephone number, or tell a common friend you would like the number. Call. Choose a time that is not intrusive. Call when you are comfortable doing so, regardless of what your friends might say about the right time to call.
• Take a deep breath and try to stay calm. You want to seem interested in the other person but not desperate for attention. Think about why you like them. In your head, make a list of a few things you could talk about with this person — or a question you’ve wanted to ask them.
• Be yourself. Women love guys who are interesting and have a great sense of humor. And you can’t be that if you’re too stiff and nervous. It’s just a date. It’s not like you’re proposing or something.
• Be confident and sincere. Look into her eyes and listen. Women sense good conversationalists and good listeners. This also gives her a preview of what to expect on a date (even if you haven’t really asked). Women hate bores.

-If she says “yes”.Have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.

-If she says “no”Don’t act shocked or offended. Just be like, “Alright.” Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a “no” personally and get ticked off. Girls don’t admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.

-If she says “some other time”Have a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it’s probably because she’s not interested and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.

Of  course, you go into it expecting her to say “yes” but it’s, as with most things in life, it’s important to be prepared for the worst. Above all else, be yourself. You want the other person to like you for you, not some phony version of you.

WAYS TO AVOID CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP:

Step 1:

COMMUNICATION

Be sure that you are communicating with your partner. However, don’t sit him down and put him through a grueling interrogation. Research shows that women are face to face communicators while men communicate better side by side. Which means the best time to talk to him is while you’re taking a walk for example, sitting in the car or laying down in bed. Additionally, never say “I think we need to talk.” These simple words will cause so much anxiety that he may get defensive and you won‘t get anywhere. What you want to do is launch into the conversation by asking him what he thinks about whatever it is that is on your mind. Or telling him how you feel about whatever topic you think warrants some discussion. Always maintain open communication and do whatever you can to further intimacy.

Step 2:

SEX

Don’t let that hot sex life you used to enjoy become a distant memory. It is not necessary to schedule time for sex. Scheduling sex puts unduly pressure on you both and takes the fun and spontaneity out of it. Instead, do something sexual whenever you get a chance. For example when you’re watching a movie together allow yourself to get a little frisky. Next time you’re kissing him hello or good bye give him a little more than a peck on the lips… give him some tongue. If he’s in the shower join him and wash his body for him. Even if you don’t have time for intercourse there is no reason not to be close. Sex is not just about intercourse. Have some form of foreplay on the menu every day.

Step 3:

BE SUPPORTIVE

If your partner wants to go back to school, spend more time enjoying his hobby etc. be supportive. Always be supportive of his interests even if some of them don’t involve you. Furthermore, have interests of your own.

Step 4:

DON’T LET YOURSELF GO

If a year or two into your marriage or relationship your appearance has dramatically changed for the worse expect trouble. This is difficult for some women to understand. After all shouldn’t he love you for who you are? Of course he should. However, he can’t forget who you were when he fell in love with you. Strive to make sure that any changes in your appearance or personality are for the better. It should be obvious, if you were a hot size four when he met you but are now a frumpy size fourteen his attraction for you will decrease or disappear all together. Think of it this way; if he was attracted to full figured women, that is the woman he would be in a relationship with. Being concerned about your appearance when there are other more important things to worry about may seem self indulgent and superficial however, you better believe that the woman he might end up cheating with is concerned with hers.

Step 5:

With so many other things to worry about, careers, children, bills etc. it is easy to overlook your partner. We can get a little too focused on whether or not he is fulfilling his purpose or taking care of his responsibilities. Not to say that those are unimportant but he is after all a person. Know, take care of and support the person you are with and you may actually be able to prevent cheating.

Is there really a difference????….

I think there seems to be a big difference. Christian dating should be where you respect one another as brothers and sisters in the Lord and should be for deciding whether you two would be right together in a marital relationship. Both of you should be comfortable praying with each other. Non Christian dating is for the moment, no real strings are attached. Most people date for fun but not for a real commitment. Actually, Christian dating is dating on a whole different level: a spiritual level. Both of you should have a relationship with Jesus, as your number one priority. In Christian dating, you are trying to get to know the person on the “who they are down deep” level, spiritual level (what are their views on God, what denomination are they, what is their favorite scripture, do they have quiet times with God, do they have Christian friends…), and to a lesser extent the physical level. In non Christian dating, instead of looking out for the other person, you are looking out solely for your own selfish interests as to what you can get out of this relationship, not how you can build a person up. Therefore, at the most, a kiss is all that once should get out of Christian dating other than hand holding. In non Christian dating, it seems that everyone is having sex without views for the ramifications both spiritually, emotionally, and the threat of disease. It is true that many Christians are dating like those who are in the world which may be why you have yet to find a difference between the two types of dating.

We should remember that the REAL DATE is establishing a relationship that is built on the principles of scripture, forming a relationship that honors God and not yourself. If you are a Christian, you already know the answer to this, the hard part is following through with it.

STEP 1:

Give yourself plenty of time before you even consider trying to befriend your ex. Seeing each other too soon will be painful; or even worse, you could slip back into your old habit of seeing your ex frequently. Taking time out is the most important part of building a healthy friendship after a breakup.

STEP 2:

Be honest about your feelings for an ex. If you can meet him without hostility, or wishing the two of you were still together, it might be time to initiate a friendship.

STEP 3:

Make a friendly call to your ex. Choose a time when you are in a good mood and pick up the phone. If it is a bad time for her, end the conversation and try later. You want to let go of the stressful associations you may have had about speaking to one another.

STEP 4:

See your ex in the company of others the first time you meet as friends. If you have mutual friends, go out as a group. If not, try an unromantic meal together. Lunch discussions are far less intense than conversations over a long dinner.

STEP 5:

Talk about the weather, jobs, family and other things of general interest in your lives. If the two of you have really accepted friendship, then there is no need to rehash emotional issues.

Notice Her:

Girls love to be noticed. It makes them feel really special. So make sure she sees you noticing her. Don’t be like those. People who work at like, mcdonalds or something and they are on a break… but do sneak a peek at her so she catches you.

Look at her eyes:

If you can’t look a girl in the eyes, you can’t get her attention… Girls are all about eyes; they love them, and they love it when you look them in the eye.

Be clean and smell good:

Well for some it’s not possible (just playing), smells are really important to girls. They get turned on by what they smell, so do your best to smell good. Take care of your teeth, check your breath, and yes keep your breath strips handy (for some)… And also… if you smell bad, don’t put too much cologne, cuz then you’d smell like crap and good together.
Try to get to know her:

Girls wants to be known. They want someone to really get who they are. That means you ask her about herself, and you let her TALK, you let her express herself. The more she can tell you about herself, the more she’ll like you. (This is true in most cases.. but guys, sometimes girls don’t open up right away, it may take some time)

Show that you are attracted:

Girls need clues. It’s true. They need to know you are interested. Then in turn they will let you know they are attracted. That takes off the edge of fear about asker her out. Show her you are attracted and see how she reacts. If she is obviously cold, then she’s probably not interested.

Smile at her:

A smile goes a long way. Everyone loves a smile. So use your smile, it speaks deep.

Be where she is:

Find out what she likes and what she does and show up there. Now, don’t become a stalker guy, or you’d scare them away, just explore! If she obviously couldn’t care less that you are there, then back off. Don’t push yourself on her, but if she shows signs of liking you, you can continue to be where she is. Don’t be a CHASER! You could get jacked at the end.  It’s happened.
Give her compliments:

Compliments, just like smiles, go a long way as well. A lot of girls don’t know how to take a compliment, but that doesn’t mean you should stop compliments them… just do it str8 up. Don’t make up stuff; just really mean it, cuz girls know if you make stuff up.
Say something funny:

Most girls say humor is the most important thing on a guy. That means don’t take yourself too seriously, even if you aren’t super funny. Lighten up. Laugh, and enjoy life. She’s like you for the person you are!

Stand tall:

Don’t stand all hunched over like the hunchback or notredame or w/e…she likes a man who stands up straight. It shows you’re confident.

Touch her a little:

Touch her lightly on the back, shoulders, or arm when you help her put her coat on, and especially. GET THE DOOR FOR HER…or even guiding her across the street. it means huge for them.

1. Don’t ever lie to us; we always find out.
2. We don’t enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening.
3. Don’t say you understand when you don’t.
4. Girls are pretty, but yours is the Prettiest!
5. You don’t have PMS; don’t act like you know what it’s like.
6. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.
7. If you talk about having a big Dick; we know you don’t.
8. Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.
9. We don’t like it when you act like Mr. Big.
10. A system in your car only impresses your homeboys not us.
11. No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe.
12. It’s good to be sensitive, sometimes.
13. If you did something wrong or even if you didn’t, apologize.
14. Be spontaneous; dinner and a movie won’t always cut it.
15. We are self-conscious by nature; we can’t help it.
16. We are DrAmA queens.
17. Fashion police do exist.
18. Don’t ask us to give head; if you are nice you just might get it.
19. We absolutely DO NOT care about monster trucks, car systems, paintball, or anything else you and your friends talk about.
20. Hugs and kisses! must be given at all times.
21. We don’t shave our legs everyday so get over it.
22. Don’t make bets about us; we always find out.
23. Shave; no matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we hate it.
24. Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emitt other strange gases from your body, it is not.
25. Don’t compare our breasts with Pamela Anderson’s; hers are fake, just remember that. ( u have a better shot at ours than you ever will with hers)
26. It is not cool to shoot snot rockets.
27. We are beautiful at all times.
28. We will always think we are fat, so humor us and tell us we aren’t.
29 You can shoot hoops, score a goal, knock down big fat guys, and hit a little baseball with a stick, so why the hell can’t you piss in the toilet and not on it.
30. Most importantly: we are always right; so don’t forget it

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate other flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – watever.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. ……so true.
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.
99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

1. She approaches you to talk

Her approach may be closely tied to No. 2, but this cue takes it a step further. Cutting through any game she may be playing, her approach and specific engagement by speaking is playing her strongest flirting card. It allows her, while speaking to you, to maintain eye contact, play with her hair, lightly touch you, and mimic your mannerisms among other flirting techniques. If she’s come over to talk to you, she wants to know what you’re all about. It’s the first step in an interview process called dating.
2. She enters your personal space

Personal space, by definition, is where others are not. When a woman enters this space, say, brushing past you with a glance and a smile, she’s inviting a response with this sure sign she’s flirting. The caliber and character of her invasion will give you cues as to how you should respond.
3. She makes eye contact

It has been said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and that through the eyes truth can be gleamed. Eye contact is a sign of confidence and trust. She’s stating that she is not interested in games and that her intentions are straightforward. The duration of the eye contact is proportional to her level of initial interest.

4. She touches you

The slight touch that sends chills up both your spines and makes your hair stand on end is one of the hallmark signs she’s flirting. When she reaches out and lightly touches your forearm or shoulder, hand or wrist, you know you have a live one. You need to reciprocate because there are few clearer signs she can provide.

5. She plays with her hair

While relatively simple and commonplace, in the right hands a woman’s hair is a versatile weapon. When trying to get your attention, she may twirl her hair in her fingers or let it cascade in front of one eye, adding a sense of come-hither mystery to her persona.

6. She mimics your body movements

For some reason, when human beings are interested or infatuated with each other, they begin to pick up certain traits from the other person. If she’s mimicking your mannerisms — the way you hold a drink or the way you’re sitting — she may very well be interested in gaining your attention and is giving you solid signs she’s flirting. Imitation is a rather high form of flattery, after all.

7. She isolates herself

If, after having made eye contact, she strays from her pack, then she’s trying to flirt with you. Women know that the most difficult defense for a man to penetrate is her wall of friends and well-wishers. If she’s specifically removing herself from that fortress then this is one of the sure signs she’s flirting and letting you know she’s lowering her defensive barriers to let you in.

8. She smiles

When a woman has an interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded room and it is definitely one of the major signs she’s flirting. It takes an effort on her part to do so, so if she’s exerting this kind of effort, engage in her flirting by returning the smile.

9. She draws attention to her mouth

A woman’s mouth can be extremely seductive, and she’s fully aware of this fact. Some of the effective signs she’s flirting will have her applying lip gloss, running her finger across her lip or using the straw in her cocktail instead of just sipping from the glass. There is a tremendous amount of flirtatious energy tied up in a woman’s lips. Lips are flirting tools that are both potent and effective..

10 . If it seems like she continues to walk by with apparently no sense of why she’s there, she’s there for you.

She’s trying to get you to notice her with this obvious sign she’s flirting, and you need to say something endearing. By walking past repeatedly, perhaps out of her way, she’s giving you a sense that she wants your attention, but she’s making you work for it.

Men hate it when women reject them. There’s nothing worse than having your ego smashed to little pieces when the woman of your dreams turns you down for a date. You really thought she was interested, but somehow you must have misread her signals.

From the male point of view, women are often far too subtle and indirect — or just plain confusing — when revealing their romantic interest (unless you happen to be really good-looking and loaded with cash, in which case they call you ). And yes, women often send mixed messages because they’re not sure of what’s going on inside their own heads.

What most guys are looking for is a set of clear female signals that tell them when a woman is definitely warm for their form.

Does this exist? Well, here are a few signs that should tell you that she probably wants you to ask her out.

1- She’s “in your face”
Suddenly, you’ll become aware of her presence everywhere — she “just happens” to show up wherever you hang out; you keep passing her in the hallway at work; she “accidentally” bumps into you; she maneuvers to stand close to you at a club.

What she’s doing is trying to get you to notice her and giving you an opportunity to make the first move. The problem with this female strategy is that a lot of guys are completely oblivious to it and consequently throw away a lot of chances to hook up. Men are direct; women are indirect. So, next time a woman starts appearing regularly in your path, be aware that she’s likely doing it on purpose.

2- She has all the right moves
A lot of people say that bodies can’t lie. Nature has programmed humans with a complex set of non-verbal flirting signals that just flow freely when people are interested in someone. These range from the widening of the iris when looking at the object of desire to more overt displays such as smiling or touching.

Here are a few body-language cues to watch out for:

• She points in your direction with her leg, foot or shoulders.
• She leans toward you while talking.
• She plays with or tosses her hair.
• She fidgets with a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or strokes the stem of her glass.
• She keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks.
• She mirrors your body movements (for example, if you put your hand on the table, she quickly does the same).
• She smiling when you check her out.

If you become aware of a cluster of these signals, you can almost be sure that she’s giving you the green light for romance.

3- She’s never too busy
This is a cardinal rule in the dating game: If a woman is interested in going out with you, she will make herself available . This means that she will give you her work number or e-mail address, she will quickly answer or return your call and she will accept your invitation to get together — and if she’s busy on the day you specify, she will say something like, “Well, I can’t this Saturday, but next Saturday would be fine, if that’s OK.”

You’ll never hear from an interested woman things like, “I’m really busy right now,” or “Let me check my schedule,” or “I just got out of a bad relationship, so I’m all mixed up about men.” Even if she’s currently actively dating someone else, she will keep the lines of communication open with you for the possibility of future contact.

4- She’s curious about you
A woman who’s interested in you wants to know everything about you (so she can talk about you with her girlfriends). She will quiz you about your family, your background, and your tastes in such things as food, music and movies. Very often, what she’s doing is trying to catalog your interests so that she can mimic your likes and dislikes in order to bond with you — if you’re crazy about hot air ballooning, suddenly, she is too.

5- She uses “The Probe” on you
“The Probe” is the female tool used for ascertaining a man’s financial resources. The Probe seems like a series of casual questions, but behind it is a ruthless calculator that’s ticking away. When a woman first meets a man that she might be interested in dating, she will quiz him on his job, where he lives and what kind of car he drives, all within the confines of a natural conversation. If you give the “right” answers, then the flirting signals will follow; but if you aren’t up to her “standards,” she’s gone in a cloud of dust.

6- She “futures” you
An interested woman is wide open for any future plans with you. In fact, she will often say something like, “Oh… you like bowling, too? We should do that some time.” When she’s operating in this mode, make no mistake about it — she wants you to ask her out.

7- She’s on pins and needles
If she’s really interested, she’ll be as nervous as a cat around you, especially if you’re clueless about reading her signals. Of course, she could be just a normally shy person, so watch how she interacts with others — if she’s only fidgety around you, then she’s probably thinking romance.

8- She’s jealous of other women you talk to
She has the green-eyed monster on her back. An interested woman will watch her competition like a hawk (and with talons bared). So, if you notice her steaming just because you’re joking around with other women, you can be sure that she wants you to be more than just her friend.