5 Signs to Know If Your Boyfriend Loves You

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On July - 3 - 2009



First you want to see if he is interested in the things that are happening in your life. Does he always talk about himself but never ask how you are doing. This can be a real sign that he does not care or is not that interest in you.

Secondly does he pick up the phone to call you and see how you are doing because if he does this it means that he cares about you. Make sure that you do not find yourself calling him and then when he calls you back then saying he does call you. It has to be when he calls you and you are not expecting it.

Thirdly does he ever mention to you about finally meeting his family. If he does then he is really into you because if he was not that interested he would not be ready for the family meeting thing yet.

Fourth does he touch you and hold you when he is with you. Does he show you affection when you are alone? This can be a real big sign he is does care because he will show you that he loves you with his touch.

Finally does he tell you he loves you? We are talking about him telling you without you saying it to him first. It is maybe the most important telling sign that your boyfriend is in love with you.

How To Survive a Break Up

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On July - 3 - 2009


Now that you got broke up, there are few things which you might feel at this point and it’s quite usual, nothing to worry anyway.

• You will definitely feel the pain.
• Feel angry about what happened with your ex.
• Will feel lonely.
• No clarity in your thoughts.

Well, if you think you feel the above emotions then you still haven’t forgot your ex. Let me ask you one question, why? As simply as that coz I don’t find any reason why you need to still think about your ex, when they actually want to break your relationship with them.
Surviving breakups is all on your mind coz mind is more powerful than what you actually think. It’s just that you got stuck up with your memories. You could do few things to get those memories off your mind, like,

• Not thinking about your past relationship.
• This is possible by having a diversion.
• Diversion could be anything which makes you comfortable.
• Things like your life, your career, things you love to do before you fell in love or could be another date, if you think you are bold enough to handle it!

All the above said things are not just to make you feel good, it’ll actually make you understand how strong and superior you could be and who you are at this point. Just ask these questions to yourself

- Am I a weakling?
- Am I not better than a wiener that I know?
- Why am I hurting myself when everyone wants to be happy?

When you ask these questions to yourself you will come to know how stupid you were to think about broken relationships and cry for nothing.

Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Still Likes You

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On July - 3 - 2009

IF SHE IS IN CONTACT WITH YOU STILL:
- Even after you had parted she contacts you in any way or other you can smile to yourself because you are still somewhere sticking to her heart. But don’t take this as one of the reason to go and talk to her she’ll never mind you. So be in contact in such a manner that she is not treated so special in it. The reason for doing like this is that when you beg to girls they don’t care about you. But if you did not care about them they have a curiosity why you didn’t do so.

SHE MIGHT COME IN FRONT IN FRONT OF YOU ALWAYS:
- This might seem a bit coincidental but it is not the truth. She comes wontedly before you only for the following reasons.
• She wants you to remember about her again and again.
• She might be interested in knowing what you are doing and how you are after the partition.
• She might also check in for whether you had started any other new relations.
So be watchful and don’t catch the bait that she throws. But in front of her try showing your face like you had missed something great in your life this increases her love towards you.

IF SHE STILL HAS THING THAT REMIND HER ABOUT YOU:
- One of the most important sign shown by your lover is that she still keeps up things that remind them about you and your love life. So this is one of the strongest sign shown by her. If she doesn’t want you she could have all the memories about you. If she doesn’t do so then it means that you are still her life.

IF SHE TRIES TO IMPRESS YOU:
- If your lover acts in such a way to impress you then it is 100% proved that she badly needs you. This could be understood from her behavior. Suppose if you like green color then she might turn up to parties (the one that you also attend) wearing green dress and walks here and there in front of you.

ASKING TO HER FRIENDS:
- You can also try enquiring about her to her friends. But make sure that she does not notice this because if she comes to know that you are interested in knowing about her then she might start to under estimate you. So don’t pave way for this situation. So ask her friends without the knowledge of her. By this method you can confirm that she really needs you.

These are some of the signs that you can really check in if you get to notice these signs then don’t hesitate just approach her and propose to her and she will also accept it with a kiss!!!!

Signs That a Guy Likes You

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On July - 3 - 2009

These are the best signs that a guy likes you:

1. Eye contact. There are two kinds of eye contact. A guy can be to shy to have eye contact, so whenever you look hem in his eyes, he will quickly turn his head to avoid looking in your eyes. Another kind of eye contact is when he looks in to your eyes; he keeps looking a bit longer than one second. Both types of eye contact can be a sign that he likes you.

2. How does he behave around other women? Does he treat you the same as other women or do you get a ’special’ treatment. If he doesn’t treat you the same it could be a sign he likes you. Often when a guy likes you, he flirts with other women. He tries to make you jealous and hopes to get attentions from because of it. A nice trick is to go away, or go to the toilet, and ask a friend to look if he stops to flirt when you are no longer around.

3. Listen to what he is saying. Guys still think they have to prove their self. So when he is talking about his new car or his high paying job, he is trying to impress you.

4. See if he is showing interest in things you do or talk about. For instance, if this guy likes the same movies or the same book as you do, often that is a sign to show you how good the two of would fit together.

5. Touching. He touches you often. He puts his hand on you shoulder, when he is talking. When by accident your leg touches his, he will not move.

6. Study his body language. If he likes you, you may notice that he doesn’t turn his back to you and often leans towards you.

The tips mentioned are some good signs that a guy likes you. But be careful do not rely on one sign only. See if there is more than one.

10 Facts About Teen Dating Violence and Abuse Statistics

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On July - 3 - 2009

1. Each year approximately one in four adolescents reports verbal, physical, emotional or sexual abuse.
2. Approximately one in five adolescents reports being a victim of emotional abuse.
3. Approximately one in five high school girls has been physically or sexually abused by a dating partner.
4. Dating violence among their peers is reported by 54% of high school students.
5. One in three teens report knowing a friend or peer who has been physically hurt by his or her partner through violent actions which included hitting, punching, kicking, slapping, and/or choking.
6. Eighty percent of teens believe verbal abuse is a serious issue for their age group.
7. Nearly 80% of girls who have been victims of physical abuse in their dating relationships continue to date the abuser.
8. Nearly 20% of teen girls who have been in a relationship said that their boyfriend had threatened violence or self-harm in the event of a break-up.
9. Nearly 70% of young women who have been raped knew their rapist; the perpetrator was or had been a boyfriend, friend, or casual acquaintance.
10. The majority of teen dating abuse occurs in the home of one of the partners.

The Dating Violence

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On June - 30 - 2009

Make Sure You’re Safe

If you, or a friend, has experienced dating violence of any kind, make sure you are in a safe place before doing anything else. If you need to, crash at someone else’s apartment or head straight to a hospital. Just make sure that you are out of the situation in a way that ensures your safety.

Talk to Someone

It may be the first thing you want to do . . . or the last. But talking to someone is one of the best things you can do for yourself or your friend. There are a lot of resources to consider:

* On-campus resources: Check with your hall staff, counseling center, student health center, department of public safety, dean of students office, or anywhere else that offers services to students. If those offices are closed, check their websites to find out what campus procedures are. Call as soon as you can and schedule an appointment to meet with someone, even if you’re not sure how exactly to talk about everything. Most campuses have administrators who are trained to work with students in similar situations and will know what to do, even if you don’t.

Advice for College Women Dating

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On June - 26 - 2009


Tip #1:
Romance and love can go hand in hand with each other, so long as you can find your true love. Therefore, don’t judge a person from his wealth and appearance. Wealth and appearance don’t mean your happiness for life. Long journey can know a horse’s strength. Just try to your best to base your love on solid bases.

Tip #2:
It is always nice to get to know your prince by taking part in sports you like. If your prince really cares about you, he will try to take part in it, too. It works like magic, believe it or not. Don’t you think so? There are many more chances in college like this, and will not try to use all the activities available.

Tip #3:
Romance and love can go hand in hand with each other, so long as you can find your true love. Therefore, don’t judge a person from his wealth and appearance. Wealth and appearance don’t mean your happiness for life. Long journey can know a horse’s strength. Just try to your best to base your love on solid bases.

10 Tips of Blind Dating

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On June - 25 - 2009

1. Location: choose a public place where you can converse with your date. Have lunch, coffee, or drinks.

2. Clothing: dress nice, but be comfortable. Avoid too much make up and cologne.

3. Split the Bill: discuss up front about splitting the bill.

4. Cell Phones: Turn your cell phone off or to silent when you arrive at the date

5. Conversation: be a good listener, ask questions, be friendly, be yourself. Avoid politics and religion on a first date. Talk about hobbies, interests, activities, and stay upbeat and positive.

6. Drinking: avoid excessive alcohol, it clouds your judgment and you want to stay sharp.

7. Focus: full attention should be on your date, maintain eye contact. Avoid checking out other people who walk by.

8. Expectations: be open-minded about your blind date. Do not expect perfection.

9. Sex: avoid having sex on the first date. You do not really know this person, get to know him first.

10. Ending the Date: be honest about wanting to see each other again.

Dating Tips for College Students

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On June - 23 - 2009

DO watch movies together, either at a theater or on a DVD player. Movies make a great college date because they’re relaxing and cheap. Here are some ideas for college date movies.

DO go on dates outside of college. A little “real life” will do you good! Something as simple as a trip to the TGIFriday’s outside of town will be a nice break.

DO be patient with one another. College is a very difficult and stressful time for many young people, so it’s natural that you and your partner will be dealing with a bit of baggage.

DON’T cheat on your partner. Not that cheating is ever a good idea, but on campus, getting caught is very easy!

DON’T ever drink excessively on a date unless you are completely sure you can trust the person you are with. Know your limit with alcohol.

DON’T ever allow yourself to be alone on a date until you know you can trust the person you are with. Date rape as a serious epidemic of college campuses, and yes, it can happen to you. Always err on the side of caution.

DON’T spread secrets about your partner. This is always a bad idea, but it’s worse on a campus where gossip spreads quickly.

DON’T date your friend’s ex unless you are completely sure it’s okay with your friend. Losing a friendship is almost never worth it.

DON’T date your professors or TAs. It might be okay to date them after the course is over, but be aware of the problems that come along with dating your professor.

The Advantages of College Dating

Posted by Alvin N. La Victoria On June - 17 - 2009

1. VARIETY

You are free from the limited selection of your high school. Depending on the size of your college, there could be several hundred times as many students as at your high school, which translates into several hundred times the potential dates. You are finally going to be able to move beyond the pool of guys or girls you’ve known since fourth grade. The downside to this is starting from scratch with people you know nothing about, but this also opens up exciting new possibilities.

2. NEWFOUND FREEDOM

One of the biggest changes between dating in high school and dating in college is these new relationships take place far form the watchful eyes of parents. College students can date freely according to their own feelings without having to worry, “What will my parents think about me?” This can mean being more open to dating those of different races, religions and backgrounds. It can also mean never needing to go out with someone just because you want to rebel or prove something to your parents.